Is Love, more than Love?

June 27, 2009 at 8:48 PM | Posted in Uncategorized | 5 Comments

My half sister told me once “there’s a lot more to love than just love, Katie.” At 17, what does that really mean? Nothing. But now, being 24 and 322 days away from my own Marriage, I think I know what shes saying.

I spend a lot of time with my Fiance, Jesse. We do everything together. He’s my fix-it- Man, My I’ve had such a hard day please listen to it- Man, My I’m so hungry go eat with me- Man, My sit in the waiting room at the doctors office- Man, My which earings look best with this dress- Man. My Comfort. My Heart. My Soul.

What a Love, a Marriage needs to be made up of {in my opinion} is God, Trust, Communication.

And that trio is not always easy.

However, I have the most understanding man. When I have something to say he listens – I can’t even explain how happy that makes me. Granted if we are driving along the highway and I ask him something while he is on his blackberry, deep in email, the response is not ever so quick. But if it’s important, and he always knows when it is, he listens. I cannot ask for more than that.

Jess, I dont know if you read this blog {b/c I think I said you were not allowed;-) } but if you do, I want to thank you for being such a great listener, and friend. I Love You and I Always Will.

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Katie,

Great blog, keep it up!

I just wanted to point out that in your trio for a great marriage you for got to mention friendship. But I think you may have already figured that out.

Even though a woman may have sisters and best friends there is nothing like resting your head on your pillow at night for the rest of your life with your best friend and lover with God leading the way, trust and communication will be a breeze.

I think you have found this in an absolutely extraordinary man, Jesse. May God bless you and your best friend for life!

Comment by Jill— July 1, 2009 #

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Too good,not as a list of questions,but most of the urban people do ask such questions ,not neccessariy before marriage… which I feel must be done before hand.

Comment by kamaal— June 16, 2010 #

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hi katie,

i can only say that u hav got the man , who cares u a lot else he wud have not been sitting for u in the waiting room, take time to anylse the dress u wear and so on.. i uderstand from ur words that – he was more or less with u always , and tell me why u should not be happy when ur man is with u even before u r binded legally.hmmm

but the question is – do u also support him in – like these situations or simply make him do the things u like to be done???

if ur response is same as his for you then u r , the luckiest one to have amna like that .

much before i say yes love is more than love – coz its increases everyday only when u understand each other and have concern for each others feelings -managing the emotions, and not just shouting when something at eachother but sit and try ot analyse the point of disturbance then yes u can feel that “love is more than LOVE…..

bye

all the best .

Comment by Mr.X— June 17, 2010 #

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your defination for this is great love to know more

Comment by jia— June 17, 2010 #

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God bless u….

Comment by jyoti— June 17, 2010 #

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